Illustration by Phil D'Andrade

We've got the official word: the G-spot does exist. At least insofar as we're talking about the Guardian's guide to sex, love, and romance. Turn the page for revelations from a newly knighted expert on women, scheduling tips from people who manage to please several partners at once, news from the world of gay porn, and plenty of advice about how and where to celebrate the National Day of Making Singles Feel Bad. Plus, we've got the results of our Sex Poll! It's information that's sweet, sexy, and, unlike the mysterious G-spot, doesn't require a diagram to find. You're welcome! And happy Valentine's Day.
Love and lust,
Molly Freedenberg

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>>U R mine... and so are U
How the polyamorous celebrate Valentine's Day
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>>Everyone's a wiener
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By Marke B

>>Waiter, I'll take the (status) check!
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>>Don't fear the jeweler
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By Candice Chan

>>Valentine's Day events
Prom, poetry, and porn

>>Wine + chocolate = love
Valentine's Day pairings
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>>Nookie by the numbers
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>>Take our Sex Poll, please!