Is sex natural?
Sex used to be about
repression, liberation, and culture. Now it's all about biology. Why are
we turning to evolutionary history to explain 21st-century lust and desire?
By Annalee Newitz
THERE'S A STRANGE rumor about the famous philosopher of sex
Michel Foucault. I can't remember where I first heard it, but I've listened
to people tell it many times with slightly different embellishments.
While he was teaching at UC Berkeley in the 1970s, Foucault gave a series
of lectures on the history of sexuality. One of his main arguments was
that people's beliefs about sex control their bodies in the same way
chains restrict the movement of prisoners. It was a sort of top-down
view of sex: erotic desires, Foucault postulated, originate from culture
rather than from the body.
And Foucault would know, apparently. Legend has it that before his
lectures, he would go to a certain gay bar in the South of Market area
of San Francisco, get himself strapped to a barrel, and take it up the
ass from any man willing to give it a go. In one version of the story,
audience members at his subsequent colloquium noticed the distinct imprint
of a buckle on his forehead when he arrived, although it gradually faded
during his discourse on perversity. By 1980, Foucault's lectures were
attracting so many students that Berkeley's huge Wheeler Auditorium
would fill to bursting and eager young scholars were turned away at
the door.
While Foucault's ideas about the social construction of sexual pleasure
were earning him professional acclaim in California, across the country
another scholar interested in the history of sexuality was getting a
rather chillier reception. E.O. Wilson, a nerdy Harvard University
entomologist, earned the lifelong hatred of many colleagues when
he published a thick book in 1975 called Sociobiology. In it,
he argued that social insects like ants prove that sexual and other
behaviors are genetic. The implications were disturbing: his work seemed
to suggest that men might be genetically programmed to dominate women,
and blacks to be a subordinate race.
Responding to the conservative flavor of Wilson's ideas, a group of
biologists (including his well-known Harvard colleague Stephen Jay Gould)
berated him for engaging in "politics by scientific means."
At a 1978 meeting of the American Association for the Advancement of
Science, audience members heckled the outspoken sociobiologist, calling
him a racist and dumping a jug of ice water on his head.
Only a few decades later, the dashing and popular Foucault is dead,
an early casualty of AIDS. His ideas continue to seduce college students
in the humanities, but to the general public he is either unknown or
dismissed as just a wacky, queer postmodern type. Meanwhile, Wilson
has lived to see his ideas accepted by many people as common sense.
Articles about the genetic origin of human behaviors, from selfishness
to promiscuity, are staples of science pages in newspapers and magazines
everywhere. Wilson's greatest detractor, the eloquent and progressive
Gould, died last year. And one of the most celebrated and widely read
evolutionary theorists doing groundbreaking work today is an acolyte
of Wilson's named Steven Pinker.
Something profound has happened to public perceptions of sex since
the days when Foucault was happily soliciting sodomy and Wilson was
getting doused. Our worldview has shifted: We no longer explain sex
in reference to Foucault-era cultural forces like repression and liberation.
Instead, we seek to understand it using biology, genomics, and
Wilson's brand of evolutionary theory. We don't want to know about sexual
revolution; we want to know about nature. In a few short years, sex
has been lifted out of the realm of culture and placed back on the African
savannas, where humans first developed languages, tools, and many other
hallmarks of the modern Homo sapiens.
Books about sex in the 1960s and '70s reflected an interest in the
cultural context of eroticism. Hits from this era included Eros
and Civilization, Lovemaps, and The Sensuous Woman. Today's
popular books on sex have titles with a distinctly scientific bent:
The Red Queen: Sex and the Evolution of Human Nature; A Natural History
of Rape; A Natural History of Love; and The Selfish Gene.
Best-selling science writer Steve Jones recently published a book about
masculinity called simply Y, in homage to the male chromosome.
And one of the biggest sex-related best-sellers in recent years is Olivia
Judson's "definitive guide to the evolutionary biology of sex,"
whimsically titled Dr. Tatiana's Sex Advice to All Creation.
Science historian and UC Irvine professor Jennifer Terry says our infatuation
with sex and evolutionary biology is nothing new. "This goes all
the way back to the 18th century and the dawn of the Enlightenment,"
she says. "At that time men of letters argued that law should be
grounded in nature. Nature became a kind of projection screen for all
kinds of notions about how we should live." As the science of biology
emerged in the 19th century, naturalists like Charles Darwin continued
the Enlightenment tradition by claiming that nature had shaped the way
humans couple in a process called "sexual selection." Put
simply, sexual selection holds that creatures drive their own evolution
by choosing mates with certain attractive qualities. If, for instance,
moose are really turned on by giant antlers, their booty-chasing habits
will result in offspring with big antlers and, over time, all of moosekind
will eventually evolve to have big horns on their heads.
But what makes us so sure that horny moose can tell us anything about
why Sir Mix-a-Lot likes big butts or why so many people cheat on their
partners? Why do we turn to evolution to explain rape, homosexuality,
and pornography? Terry suggests that our renewed interest in the evolution
of sex may be a response to the way biotechnology and other industries
have blurred the distinction between nature and culture. "Biotech
allows you to manipulate what used to be called 'nature.' We have a
cultural practice that's transforming nature," she explains.
Suddenly, it's no longer so clear where nature ends and culture begins.
If we can change the course of the potato's evolution in a lab, does
that spell doom for old-fashioned sexual selection? What else will change?
Will we no longer lust and fuck and breed the way nature intended?
Perhaps more to the point, many people are asking themselves: If we
are no longer guided by nature, what does guide us? This burning question
seems to be fueling our appetite for news about the degree to which
evolution is still shaping our sex drives. As long as we can place our
desires in the context of what our hunter-gatherer ancestors did 100,000
years ago, the bioengineered future in which sodomy is legal and men
do dishes is no longer quite so scary. Evolutionary biology teaches
us that sex is still governed by the immutable laws of nature. Right?
Well, it depends on what you mean by "nature."
The jungle and the supermarket
Most people know about Darwin's famous theory of natural selection.
He argues that species evolve through "survival of the fittest."
When several types of tiger compete for the same hunting grounds, for
example, only the strongest and longest of tooth survive. The wimpier
tiger species dies out. Lesser known is Darwin's theory of sexual
selection. Detailed in The Descent of Man, it explains how a
species changes the course of its own evolution through mate choice.
While natural selection is about relationships between species, sexual
selection is about why some members of a species win mates and pass
on their genes while others don't. It's a scientific theory of desire.
Today sexual selection has become the focus of many evolutionary biologists'
work. There are two basic models for how it operates let's call
them the jungle and the supermarket.
Experts who favor the jungle model emphasize human conflict and selfishness.
Men and women struggle with each other the way wild animals do in a
dangerous jungle. This version of the sexual story portrays people fighting
tooth and nail for resources. When men and women do form social bonds,
it's to trick or coerce a mate into rearing children with them so they
can push their genes on the next generation. Pulitzer prize-winning
author Jared Diamond makes a case for this in his book Why Is Sex
Fun? He explains why families stay together in less-than-romantic
terms: "Deserting a fertilized mate to pursue other females would
bring no evolutionary gain to a male if his offspring thereby died of
starvation. Thus, self-interest may force the male to remain with his
fertilized spouse, and vice versa." In the jungle, only the most
selfish and craftiest survive.
Richard Dawkins makes a similar case in The Selfish Gene, while
Randy Thornhill and Craig Palmer give the jungle model an even darker
cast in their work on how men evolved to rape women. Their idea is that
men and women have developed competing mating strategies. Men learned
to rape and successfully perpetuated "rape genes"
to circumvent women's power to choose a mate. For Thornhill and Palmer,
rape is part of male biology, just as being sexually picky is part of
female biology. They recommend that women heed their research and keep
it in mind when they decide what to wear to a nightclub.
Theorists who aren't convinced by this violent portrait of human sexuality
have offered another way to understand our natural history. They espouse
the supermarket model of sexual selection, which explains how eroticism
grew out of cooperation and diversity. In this theory, our sexual habits
resemble those of people shopping at a supermarket: some of us prefer
melons, while others prefer pears. We are not all competing for the
same fruits. Moreover, we gain access to all those luscious pieces of
produce by cooperating to get them to the store: farmers work with suppliers,
who work in turn with shop owners, and so on. At the supermarket, people
seek many different kinds of sexual partners and cooperate with each
other to find them.
Stanford University biology professor Joan Roughgarden is one
of the most outspoken proponents of the supermarket theory of sexual
selection. She argues that there is an evolutionary advantage to cooperation,
because it solidifies social bonds and creates a safe environment for
child rearing. According to Roughgarden, data gleaned from animals reveal
that the genes of dominant (rapist) males are no fitter than those from
subordinate (non-rapist) males.
The supermarket model also offers an evolutionary explanation for homosexuality,
transgenderism, and other kinds of sexuality that cannot be accounted
for in a strictly jungle mode of selection. More than 300 mammal species,
including humans, engage in same-sex relationships. If these species
evolved to cooperate, Roughgarden argues, it would explain the development
of a form of sexuality whose purpose is purely social rather than reproductive.
"Homosexuality challenges the competition paradigm," she
explains. "It demonstrates that animals are building friendships
and exchanging pleasurable contact." And they aren't doing it in
the service of their selfish genes.
Let's talk dirty to the animals
Biologist and UC Davis professor Marlene Zuk says people just won't
stop asking her if infidelity is natural. Because she's written extensively
about the sex lives of animals, people think she has special knowledge
about the "natural" underpinnings of sexual behavior. Wilson's
Sociobiology drew parallels between ants and humans, after all,
and many fans of evolutionary biology expect that the key to understanding
human desire lies in the world of animals.
But Zuk is wary of drawing comparisons between humans and other beings.
She thinks that all too often people use examples from the animal world
to make a political or moral argument about how humans should live.
Right-wingers might use gorillas to justify rigid patriarchy; lefties
like myself point to the promiscuous, bisexual bonobo as an example
of how San Francisco culture is reproduced in nature. "The problem
is that it's too easy to get only a limited view of what animals are
really like," Zuk says. "You can find egalitarianism or you
can find patriarchy and traditional families. Neither gives you a complete
picture of what there is, and your preconceptions will prevent you from
seeing the great diversity of sexual behaviors that animals express."
Understanding the true diversity of animal behaviors, however, can
shed light on questions like why humans generally enjoy having more
than one sexual partner over a lifetime. Perhaps it's because monogamy
is a social behavior and not a sexual one. "Animals give us ideas
about ways that things can exist that we'd never even thought about,"
Zuk enthuses.
In a recent book called The Myth of Monogamy, David Barash and
Eve Lipton describe how genetic testing has revealed that many animals
once believed to be monogamous are in fact having babies by individuals
who are not their partners. Barash and Lipton argue that sexual promiscuity
is good for the gene pool, while social monogamy is good for child rearing.
For some species, fitness may depend on a mixture of fooling around
and staying home with the kids.
Tom Cline, a UC Berkeley genetics professor, says that natural diversity
forces us to ask a more basic question about sex. "Why have it
at all?" he wonders. Enthusiastically, he answers himself: "Sex
is a great way for organisms to exchange genetic information!"
It's helpful to look at sex from this point of view because it shows
how far humans have come. From nature's standpoint, sex is a good way
to swap genes. Everything else is just cultural gravy.
One of Cline's major areas of research is the genetic system that causes
fruit flies to develop into males or females. He points out that not
all species have a male and female version. "Male and female come
from the idea that there is a different investment in the [sexual cells
called] gametes," he says. In species where each partner makes
an equal investment in its gametes, there are only mates, not sexes.
We describe humans in terms of male and female because the male invests
very little energy in each sperm (there are thousands of sperm in every
ejaculation), whereas the female invests a lot in the one or two eggs
she produces per month. Although humans put great stock in the cultural
differences between men and women, for Cline sex differences are simply
a matter of chemistry and morphology. There is no such thing as culturally
constructed gender among flies. "The bottom line here is that you're
looking at how a species is designed to work in terms of reproducing."
Steve Jones, author of Y, would beg to differ. In his occasionally
convoluted exegesis on the Y chromosome the single piece of genetic
material that distinguishes men from women he teases cultural
meanings out of the structure and composition of the male genome. Pointing
out that the Y chromosome is small and full of junk DNA (not unlike
every other chromosome), Jones postulates that men are much more vulnerable
than was previously believed. Where Cline sees chemistry, Jones sees
an explanation for men's sense of inadequacy.
Many conventional geneticists would probably take issue with Jones's
correlation between the size of the Y chromosome and men's obsession
with the sizes of certain other parts of their bodies. But his analysis
sheds light on one of the major contributions evolutionary biology has
made to public perceptions of sex. It reminds us that our culture grew
out of our bodies, not the other way around. We started out as animals
and developed culture out of our so-called natural urges. In fact, one
of the few things that nearly all scientists agree on is that
humans' large brains are a result of sexual selection not natural
selection. We might be humping more often, but if it hadn't been for
the strange erotic desires of our distant forebears, we would have
far fewer theories about it.
The latest mainstream author to take a stab at explaining how sex made
us the smartest animals on the planet is Leonard Shlain, a surgeon at
the California Medical Center of San Francisco. His new book is Sex,
Time and Power: How Women's Sexuality Shaped Human Evolution. In
a direct critique of the jungle model of sexual selection, Shlain argues
that women's sexual choices guided humans to develop language and other
complex symbolic systems that characterize contemporary culture.
An ability to use language was, according to Shlain, attractive to
prehistoric women, because it allowed them to negotiate sex with potential
mates. A pregnant woman needs help to survive, and any man who could
easily communicate his willingness to assist her would have seemed a
more enticing choice than the man who tried to bop her on the head and
rape her. As women mated more often with men who could use language,
they had children with those skills too. Eventually, when men became
smart enough, according to Shlain, they invented patriarchy and took
away women's right to choose their mates. (Shlain doesn't speculate
about whether the invention of patriarchy precipitated a decline in
male intelligence.)
Everything is natural
Of course, Shlain's account of human history is filled with the kind
of wishful thinking that Terry and Zuk warn against. He claims that
women discovered time by realizing they had periods once a month and
that prehistoric men showed women they weren't selfish by sticking around
after their ejaculations to give women orgasms. Obviously, there is
no hard evidence for either of these assertions. They are simply imaginative
reconstructions of what might have happened back in Africa more than
100,000 years ago. The book's preoccupation with men giving
women orgasms sounds like something from the 1970s; it says more
about Shlain's efforts to be a sensitive man than it does about what
our ancestors might have done. Likewise, Thornhill and Palmer's account
of the "naturalness" of rape might strike some as sexual conservatism
posing as academic research.
Despite our best efforts, we may never figure out which parts of our
sexual desires are cultural and which are inherited from our animal
ancestors. And most evolutionary biologists are just fine with that.
"If nonmonogamy occurs in animals and humans, so what? What's the
point?" Zuk asks. Ultimately, animals are so different from us
that their behavior proves nothing about humans.
Moreover, sometimes nature is so weird that we aren't sure what to
make of it. Cline says the most illogical thing he's seen in his work
is his favorite sex organ: the fruit fly's "sex comb." Scientists
used to believe that this bristly structure on the fly's front legs
allowed him to cling to the female while mating. But it turned out to
be directly connected to the brain via the fly's nervous system. "Perhaps
it gives the fly pleasure?" Cline speculates. The point is that
the sex comb doesn't make the male fly live longer or stay healthier
or pass on its genes more effectively. It's evolved principally to provide
some kind of stimulation, sort of like a fruit fly version of the human
clitoris. Neither the jungle nor the supermarket models of sexual selection
can satisfactorily explain why some organs evolve purely to provide
pleasure. Bacteria, after all, don't need orgasms to induce them to
exchange genetic material. So why do flies? Why do we? "We just
can't say for sure," Cline says.
Zuk hopes the wide variety of mating scenarios in nature will help
people realize that, in a sense, nothing is unnatural. Especially today,
when humans are affecting their evolution not just through sexual selection
but also through direct manipulation of their genome in the lab, it
seems foolish to think that there is some sort of superior natural
way of life. "Lots of things are natural, like infanticide,"
Zuk says. "Do we want to emulate that?"
Knowing where we came from and understanding how our bodies gave birth
to our cultures is important. But they can't answer the kinds of complicated
political and moral questions people in San Francisco deal with everyday.
How can nature teach us whether transgendered people should receive
health benefits to cover sex-reassignment surgery, or whether same-sex
marriage should be legal? And will nature, with its thousands of ways
of creating families, show us what the "best" kind of kinship
network is?
"I would always urge people not to look for simple lessons from
nature," Roughgarden says. "When we are dealing with human
affairs, we should stand up for ethical reasoning. We need to talk about
how to have a just society."
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