I've known people who have sex for money, have sex as a hobby, write about (or perform about or do art about or teach about) sex as an avocation, and still have enough interest and energy left over to have the occasional bit of relaxing off-line sex at home with a partner when nobody's watching or reading along. But I am not one of them. I get bored. Read more »
I know you've written about the G-spot before, but I have to say I'm still confused. I can have orgasms when my boyfriend goes down on me but not from intercourse, which I guess is pretty common. I keep wondering maybe if he could find my G-spot? I was also wondering about female ejacuutf8g. I don't think I've ever female ejaculated or had a G-spot orgasm. What can I do? Love,
Hoping For More
You and quite an army, actually. All of your desiderata are perennials on women's must-have lists. Read more »
Since I can't write this week, I thought I could at least rerun a letter germane to recent discussions.
I met a guy through his very explicit and fun Craigslist ad describing the weird-ass kinky sex he wanted. So we e-mailed, met, and had a great time. He's handsome, intelligent, artsy ... totally my type. We end up in bed, he gives me some quality oral sex, and then he ejaculates within two minutes. Read more »
I wonder if you've been living in San Francisco too long? Most prostitutes are not happy grad students! Most have been abused, are addicts, or both, and it's not a "career choice." I think the woman in your last column is a sex addict and needs therapy, not someone to be cheered on by people like you who think promiscuity is cool. I would worry that kind of behavior says something pretty bad about the emotional state of anyone who's doing it. Read more »
I found this on Craigslist. Please, please stop this poor girl before it's too late! She should hear from a professional that she'd be sacrificing nerve endings to a bunch of dickweeds who are suckers for media standards. And they won't even like her more. God help us.
advice please re labia w4m
so im hearing mixed reviews from guys about a female's labia. do guys prefer the labia minora to be big or small? Read more »
I read the letter from Lonely Guy/Nice Guy and my thought is that he sounds kind of resentful and also like he wants to "get" a woman, which isn't the same as wanting to meet women! Maybe they can tell. Reader A
Dear Andrea: Have you heard of a study that analyzed biometric feedback from self-identified male bisexuals, and the notable finding was that the overwhelming majority of these men were in fact homosexual, not bisexual? The conclusion of the study was that "true" male bisexuality is extremely rare. Read more »
The letter from "Forty and Frustrated" a few weeks back got a lot of interest and at least one excellent suggestion (go out alone) from a woman who has had success following her own advice. Excellent! I also heard from "F&F's" male counterpart (and no, sorry, I can't match them up), and here's what we're going to do: We're going to read this and figure out what's wrong and come up with a better approach. Together. Here goes:
I'm a 44-year-old guy, single for most of my life. Read more »
These are perennial body parts questions, and I feel I would be somewhat remiss if I didn't re-answer them every few years. Here are some that have been hanging around waiting for me.
I once tried for half an hour putting my index finger about two inches inside my girlfriend's vagina, pressing with a "come hither motion" and simultaneously pressing the mound from outside. Read more »