Andrea Newman

Taking the lead

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andrea@altsexcolumn.com

Dear Andrea:

I am a 21-year-old college student and am looking for boys about my age to have sex with. But whenever I approach one, I end the conversation with absolutely no idea if he is interested. The signals are so mixed, they cancel each other out. A lot of the time, a boy will avoid eye contact, keeping his arms folded and swallowing a lot, then ask if I'd like to get coffee sometime. If I do something extremely forward, like touch his arm and leer, it's like I pulled out a gun. Read more »

Quid pro shmo

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andrea@altsexcolumn.com

Dear Andrea:

My girlfriend and I met in Europe. We were simply friends because she had a boyfriend. She came to the United States for grad school, and now we're dating. But, she still hasn't broken up with her boyfriend over there. She doesn't want to do it over the phone because she's been with him for about five years. She says she'll break up with him over summer break when she can do it in person. Does this mean I could also have another girlfriend? Read more »