The tragic tale of Tamesha Tobie
Gun violence kills a teenage girl -- and nobody's solving the crime

gwschulz@sfbg.com

At first, police believed it was a terrible, self-inflicted mishap.

It happened April 15, just after the funeral held for a San Francisco man who'd succumbed to diabetes. Mourners were gathered in the Western Addition home of Tamesha Tobie's grandmother, Edna Tobie. Tamesha, a 14-year-old first-year high schooler in town from Stockton for the funeral, was hanging out with two teenage boys, her cousins, in a bedroom — a room where, it turns out, another family member had stashed a powerful .357 Magnum revolver. Suddenly, the house filled with the sound of the gun's pop.

Tobie's aunt was cooking in the kitchen. She rushed to find out what was going on. The two boys met her in the hallway and told her there was a gun; she found Tobie on the bed, not moving. Nearby lay the pistol, with five live rounds and a shell still visible in the cylinder under the hammer.

The family dialed 911, and soon the area was packed with uniforms. Paramedics arrived with the police, as did a media flack who expected reporters, a crisis response team from the health department, the local medical examiner, and Sup.

A D V E R T I S E M E N T


Ross Mirkarimi, whose district includes Edna Tobie's Oak Street home.

"These are vivid experiences you don't lose," Mirkarimi said. "The gut-wrenching part is that it was a young girl."

Fox, CBS, the Associated Press, and the San Francisco Chronicle all reported what the cops told them: Tamesha Tobie had accidentally shot herself with the gun.

But it turns out that wasn't true. In fact, according to an autopsy completed by the medical examiner June 1, Tobie didn't pull the trigger.

Her death has become another in a long list of unsolved homicides in San Francisco — and another sign that gun violence, both accidental and intentional, is raging out of control.

THE COPS DON'T KNOW

Months after the killing, the San Francisco Police Department didn't seem aware that Tobie's death was anything but an accident.

When we contacted the SFPD's press office early in September, the staffers weren't aware that her death had been ruled a homicide, nor was Lt. John Murphy, head of the homicide unit. Department spokesperson Sgt. Neville Gittens even requested that the Guardian fax him a copy of the report.

Now the SFPD acknowledges that Tobie was a homicide victim. "We believe it was done at the hands of someone else," Gittens said a week after receiving the report.

A homicide inspector assigned to the case said he learned of the medical examiner's final report two weeks ago but explained that he'd already regarded Tobie's death as suspicious.

Inspector Mike Johnson said he thinks one of the two cousins in the room with Tobie fired the weapon. Police have also concluded that the gun was used in an unrelated San Francisco homicide a few months prior by another young family member before being hidden in the home of Tobie's grandmother.

Nobody has been arrested in that case either. Despite the fact that this gun has now been used to kill at least two people, Johnson conceded that not enough evidence exists to make an arrest in the first murder, even though a suspect has been identified — an exasperating fact for a city already near last year's total of 85 murders.

If nothing else, the gun's owner could ...

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( 3 comments | Comment on this article )
jonny5 on Monday, March 17, 2008 at 11:53 AM
its sad to know that people can be so supid and just irresponsible! this young girl was my sister!!! we were so close and somebody took that away from me!!! no one has been locked up for wat they have done!!! i know putting someone in jail will not bring my little sister back but it would make me feel so much better knowing that justice has won!!! its almost a year now since her death and my heart still hearts. what makes it even worse is to see my mother!!! she is in so much pain!!! how can someone be so cold?!!! and on top of all that i haden't seen my sister for almost a year before her death and i was planing on spending the summer with her. And because of someones stupidity i will never get to see her again!!! i want people to relize that a gun is not a toy!!! its a death weapon. guns dont kill people people kill people!!! R.I.P Tamesha Tobie!!! You will be greatly missed!!! I love you sweet Heart!!!
TAMESHA on Saturday, May 3, 2008 at 11:28 PM
AND NEED TO GET INVOLED SHE DID NOT DESERVE TO BE SHOT AND KILLED WHY WHY NO ONE CAN TELL ME WHY I NEED CLOSER I NEED MY LITTLE GIRL, MOMMY LOVES YOU BABY GIRL I DONT NO HOW MANY MORE TRAGICTY THINGS I CAN TAKE BUT I DO KNOW I WILL KEEPTAMESHA I LOVE YOU SO VERY MUCH I'M SO LOST WITH OUT YOU, YOU CHANGE MY LIFE THE DAY YOUR WERE BORN SO MANY MEMORYS SO LITTLE TIME I DIDNT GET TO SAY GO BYE IT SOULD NOT HAVE BEEN YOU IT SOULD HAVE BEEN ME IT'S BEEN OVER A YEAR AND STILL NO JUSTIC

WE ARE LOSING ARE CHILDEN AT THE HANDS OF OTHER CHILDEN IF THE PARENTS PAID ATTENTION AND WERE INVOLED IN THERE LIFES ALOT OF THIS WOULD NOT BE HAPPING I FEEL THE PARENTS ARE RESPONSBLE FOR THERE CHILDEN FIGHTING TO GET CLOSER UNTILL MY LAST BREATH GOOD-BYE MY LITTLE ANGEL I PRAY WE WILL BE TOGETHER AGINE

I LOVE YOU AND MISS YOU SO MUCH I CRIED ALL DAY EVERY DAY AND I CANT STOP AND TO THE PERSON THAT TOOK MY BABY AWAY FROM ME IT'S ONLY A MATTER OF TIME!!!!!
cwhitfield on Tuesday, November 17, 2009 at 10:26 AM
God bless your soul little sister we have not forgotten about you. You run through our minds everyday, and you will continue to do so untill it is our time to meet you at the pearly gates. Untill then rest in peace; and may god have mercy on all of our souls, for this world we are living in today is very dangerous, because times are very hard for everyone and anything can happen to anyone at anytime.

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