Hot sex events this week: Feb 10-16

Explore the history of Chinatown's sexy nightclub scene at the Old Mint.

Valentine's week is in full effect, but whether you're single, double, triple, or just all-encompassing there's a lot of fun (and smarts!) to be had out there in Big Sexyland.


Swinging Chinatown: The Golden Age of Chinese Nightclubs Opening Gala
Bay Area author and personality Ben Fong-Torres will host this celebration of the rare exhibit, featuring the "Grant Avenue Follies," a troupe of former nighclub dancers.

Thurs/11, 6pm
Old Mint
88 Fifth St, SF


Bawdy Storytelling: Your Cheating Heart
Adulterers, polyamorists, and jilted lovers tell stories in honor of what the hosts have dubbed "Filthy February."

Wed/10, 7pm
Blue Macaw
2565 Mission


Beer and breasts: What goes together better? Hubba Hubba Revue and Shmaltz Brewing Company celebrate the return of Coney Island Human Blockhead with a full-on cabaret show featuring Sister Kate, Honey Lawless, Pin Key Lee, and Vagabondage.

Thurs/11, 8pm
Paradise Lounge
1501 Folsom, SF

Underwear Party
Trade in your underwear for a free drink at this weekly party in honor of undressing. Featuring wet underwear contest and Room and Locker passes from Steamworks.

Thurs/11, 9pm
1347 Folsom, SF
(415) 552-8689


Little Minsky's
Douglas Good, the Flying Fox, and a few shady characters present Kellita, Sugar la Vie, Lady Monster, and a bevy of beauties in this monthly burlesque show.

Thurs/11, 9pm
Club Deluxe
1511 Haight, SF


Luv Up the HeARTbeat RED PARTY
The folks behind the Hearbeat Amplifier Art Project host a Valentine's themed Lingerie and Lace party, featuring DJ Knowa Knowone, Aradia Tribal Fushion Bellydance, and a linger and lace fashion show. Show up in your undies or pay the higher cover.

Thurs/11, 9pm
657 Harrison, SF


Red Hots Burlesque
Dottie Lux celebrates two years of weekly shows with host Jukie Sunshine and a performance roster that reads like a who's who of the Bay Area burlesque scene.

Fri/12, 7:30pm
El Rio
3158 Mission, SF


Ladies and Couples Night at Galleri
The adult retail store in South San Francisco invites women and the paramours who love them to an intimate private party showcasing the shop's merchandise. Guests will enjoy wine, Valentine's gifts, special discounts, and a chance to sample the merchandise. Guests must RSVP.

Fri/12, 8pm
168 Beacon, South San Francisco
(650) 827-3946


Lucha VaVOOM: From Lucha with Love
Everyone's favorite combination of Mexican masked wrestling, burlesque, and comedy has come up with its most romantic Sexo y Violencia extravaganza yet.

Fri/12, 9pm
1805 Geary, SF


Lick It
Party with naughty and nice gogo boys and compete for prizes and giveaways at this party hosted by Lance Holman, Mr May in the Bare Chest Calendar.

Fri/12, 10pm
1347 Folsom, SF
(415) 552-8689


Be Our Valentine: Customer Appreciation Night
Good Vibes celebrates Valentine's Day with complimentary chocolates and wine as personal shoppers help you select the perfect gift for your sweetheart - or yourself.

Fri/12-Sun/14, 6pm-9pm
Good Vibrations


Whipped: ATPOC Recipes for Love, Sex, and Disaster
Mangos with Chile present the second annual show about the miracles, dreams, and cream our hearts make, featuring true life queer and trans stories of love through music, spoken word, theater, dance, burlesque, drag, and video.

Fri/12-Sat/13, 8pm
La Pena Cultural Center
3105 Shattuck, Berk


Water Tantra for Couples
Fancy dinner's overrated. If you really want to impress your sweetie, sign up together for this special workshop for couples who want to deepen their erotic connection. Topics will include water yab yum, water lap dance, partnered breathwork, and sensual mediation.

Sun/14, 4-8pm
$160/couple (including snacks and drinks)
Passion Temple


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