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Cruising Craigslist: Muses, models, and art sluts

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Each week, Justin Juul combs the SF Craigslist Personals and Missed Connections for true gems that prove there's enough love for everyone. Read more »

Doing the unspeakable

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By Molly Freedenberg

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During a recent beer-fueled gab session with my girlfriends, I made a startling discovery: All of us have particular ways our sexual encounters - whether with strangers or long-term lovers - tend to go. They are different for each of us. And most interestingly, they are unspoken.

For example. When Friend A brings a boy back to her bed, more likely than not they'll simply cuddle - or make out without having intercourse. Read more »

Peepshow: Missed Connection, found somehow

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Each week Justin Juul highlights a rad upcoming local sexy event

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Who: Hardcore Christians and other ridiculous assholes probably won’t agree with me here, but the truth about human desire is that it knows no bounds and is utterly insatiable. Read more »

Hot sex events this week: April 8-14

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Compiled by Molly Freedenberg

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Let Mistress Tatiana teach you the ropes at her "Spanking and Paddling" class.

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>> RADAR reading series featuring Lorelei Lee
Michelle Tea's reading series featuring emerging, underground writers and artists gets even hotter this week when Renee Hahn, Patrick O'Neil, and Bucky Sinister are joined by porn performer Lorelei Lee.

Wed/8, 6pm
Free
San Francisco Public Library
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alt.sex.column: Oprah begs for mercy

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By Andrea Nemerson. View more alt.sex columns here. Email your questions to Andrea: andrea@altsexcolumn.com

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Dear Readers:

"Oprah begs for mercy" sounds so much like the title of one of the S/M fantasy stories you can read online that I just couldn't resist it, but honestly, read this:

Dr. Berman: ... Read more »

Ex-gay, no way: Sexologist Dr. Jallen Rix talks about surviving the ex-gay movement, part 1

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By Justin Juul

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Dr. Rix, preaching the word

In every great film about post-college urbanites in America, there is a scene in which the hip gay character’s erratic behavior is explained through a montage that looks something like this:Read more »

Dirty Words on the bus

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By Molly Freedenberg

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I've recently realized that Ellen Sussman's Dirty Words: An Encyclopedia of Sex (Bloomsbury, 2008) was a strange (good? bad?) choice as the first book I would read on the bus during my first month of car-free living in San Francisco. Read more »

Confessions: My favorite accidental porn

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By Molly Freedenberg

While catching up on the last season of the L Word last night, I was reminded that I'm not that into porn. Thing is, I do get turned on by media - photos, stories, movies - just rarely media that's meant explicitly, or exclusively, to excite me sexually. Call it a girl thing. Call it a woeful lack of porn geared towards my particular interests. Whatever you call it, it doesn't bother me - primarily because there are so many other places (besides actual, you know, life) I find sensual stimulation. Here are some of my favorites:

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Hot sex events this week: April 1-7

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Compiled by Molly Freedenberg

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Will U and U be my Valentine? Learn how to ask at Negotiating Successful Threesomes.

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>> Clothes-On Sex! Resurrecting the Art of Frottage
Indulge your inner teenager and recapture those days of long, carefree make-out sessions - the days before "The Sex" started to overshadow everything. Read more »

Hot pix! Amish Country Gazebos (NSFW)

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Here's what happens when you step into an Amish Country Gazebo:

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... the temperature rises ... the body relaxes ... and the mind wanders ....

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.... you get a fresh perspective -- an invigorating splash of tranquillity -- whether you're enjoying a morning cup of coffee, an evening glass of tea, or your neighbor's wife .... Read more »